Hello Dolls! Hope you’re having a great day! As keeping with tradition (lolz I’ve only done these series of posts for a few weeks now), it’s Monday and you know what that means? I’m going to share with you my thoughts on something that has nothing to do with beauty or fashion (although, you can apply it to that world too). If you haven’t checked out my previous post, you can do so right here!
Taking criticism is hard. Even for the most positive people out there, it’s not easy. We live in a world where we are constantly criticized for what we say, what we do, what we wear, who we are, etc. And social media, in this day and age, has not made this any easier. Judging someone is easy. I’ll be the first to admit it, there are times when I initially judge someone without knowing them and I can’t stress to you how incorrect that is to do. Criticizing and judging can become second nature for some people. What we need to do is to not react to the negative things that others have to say. Sure, it affects you no matter what but what everyone needs to remember is that people will always have things to say and what you need to do is focus on yourself. When you partake in judging and criticizing someone or something, you’re condoning all the negative thoughts in your head to become reality. In doing so, you begin to create a toxic environment around you, which we should avoid at all costs. You won’t grow with a negative attitude nor will you accomplish anything. To the people who judge and criticize constantly, please stop. You’re not helping anyone, including yourself. To the people who get constantly judged & criticized, ignore the haters. You can’t stop people, I know, but you can choose to ignore their silliness by encouraging positivity.
So stay positive, let the haters hate and just focus on being the best version of yourself!